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Posted by admin on September 2, 2010

This year (sophomore), new students came to my class. One of them is a stubborn self-centered drama queen that can be considered an extremist because she is just so darn stubborn. She’s been the spotlight for her whole life, rich spoiled and extremely popular.

At first, I pushed her in the group, and she fit in immediately. Of course, everyone started following her. She acknowledges that she is self centered, and is very very proud of that fact. She also tries to make everything her way, including conversations and even class assignments. For example, she tells people what to dress, how to wear, and heck we believed her immediately because she is such a darn good speaker that she always sounded right and truthful(even if she knows she is wrong she will stick up to that fact.).

And then after months, I realized I’ve just become a pushover. She would take my occupied seat when I’m standing(which I find very rude), make me do all sorts of ‘jobs’ for her as a favor as a friend, copy my homework, and copy my notes. I understand that as a friend I should be helping her homework but somehow I think she is the one clinging on to me because she cannot get her work done from all the procrastination she makes and facebooking late at night because she "doesn’t feel like doing homework". She would want her name on a group T shirt even though every one else doesn’t, and will completely reject me if I pointed out how unfair that is. I don’t feel that she is my friend any more, and every time I reject doing the many ‘favors’ she wants me to do, she would be very upset and befriend my close friend and call each other ‘BFF’ because apparently they are real friends and I am not. She has taken my close friend from me and spoiled that friend, so all I have is her. Her. Her. Her. Her. Her. Everything is about HER.

And I will be very very alone. Just because I believe she is wrong. Just because I stood up for my own opinion. Just because I am the only one standing for reasoning among all the other sheep.

How can I deal with such a self-centered b*tch?
How can I deal with friend who wouldn’t stop using me and then throwing me away?

Oh, gosh. well, I know I’ve gone through SOME of that trouble in my life…That’s a hard one. First of all, I didn’t even know someone as self centered & repulsive existed? Nice. Well, all I can really say, is that you need to get yourself as far away from this girl as you can. She is obviously a bad influence to be around(not to sound like a parent or anything). But, you shouldn’t do this immediately. You should slowly separate yourself from her in a way that doesn’t make her really notice. Slowly start to show less interest, or to stop replying to her, or even to stop following her(if that’s what you do). I’m guessing it’s summer for you now(or soon)? If so, this will help A LOT. The couple of months of not having to be at school & around the people you don’t want to be by. And for your once close friend, if that’s the kind of person she wants to be BFFs with, she’s obviously somewhat like her. And you deserve better that that. This may sound hard, but you should really find another crowd to hang around, or you’re gonna be miserable the rest of your highschool career. :\ I hope this helped somewhat!

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